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Wednesday 11 November is Singles’ Day, or 11.11, and your phone will probably tell you before your calendar does. Shopping apps love it: four ones in a row, a day for single people to spoil themselves, and a countdown to the festive sales.
But in South Africa and the UK, 11.11 is a much smaller affair than the adverts suggest. Here’s where it came from, who actually runs deals, what’s worth buying for yourself, the customs and returns small print, how it compares with Black Friday, and where to meet other singles once the parcel has landed.
According to Reuters, the idea began at China’s Nanjing University in 1993 as “Bachelor’s Day”, when single people treated themselves and organised get-togethers, a playful answer to Valentine’s Day. Alibaba turned it into an online shopping event in 2009, and in China it has since grown into a weeks-long festival that peaks on 11 November.
It reaches South Africa and the UK mostly through global marketplace apps. AliExpress, owned by Alibaba, ran its 2025 11.11 festival from 11 to 19 November, with UK promotions carrying on through the wider Black Friday period until 3 December.
In South Africa, Takealot has a Singles’ Day page that says the day “might have started abroad, but we’ve made it local”. At the time of writing it simply says “See You Next Year!”, with no 2026 dates announced. Beyond that, we couldn’t verify big 11.11 sales from local retailers in either country, so treat any “11.11 deal” from a shop you don’t know with healthy suspicion.
| Singles’ Day (11.11) | Black Friday and Cyber Monday | |
|---|---|---|
| 2026 dates | Wednesday 11 November | Friday 27 November and Monday 30 November |
| Who runs deals in SA | Mainly global marketplaces; Takealot has a Singles’ Day page | Widely run by local retailers |
| Who runs deals in the UK | Mainly global marketplaces and some brands | Widely run by UK retailers |
| Delivery before Christmas | Earlier, but parcels from abroad can take weeks | Later, so check cut-off dates |
| Best for | Small treats you’ve already priced up | Bigger buys you’ve tracked for a while |
Dates and retailer plans are correct at the time of writing. Most 2026 sale details hadn’t been announced, so check each retailer’s own site before you plan around a deal.
Singles’ Day is at its best for small, low-risk treats, where a disappointing parcel costs you little. Think of it as a warm-up, not the main event.
HMRC’s guidance on gov.uk says that if you buy goods worth £135 or less from abroad, VAT should already be included in what you paid, and there’s no customs duty on most goods. Above £135, the delivery company will bill you for VAT and any duty before handing the parcel over, and will usually hold it for about three weeks before sending it back if you don’t pay. The government plans to scrap the duty relief on low-value imports by October 2028 at the latest, so today’s rules still apply this year.
SARS used to let parcels under R500 in with a flat 20% charge and no VAT. From 1 September 2024 it added VAT on top, and it said it would move low-value parcels into new categories with their own duty rates. Before you pay, check whether duties and VAT are included at checkout or collected on delivery, and budget for the total, not the sticker price.
The UK’s Competition and Markets Authority warns about misleading countdown timers, false stock claims and misleading prices, and suggests shopping with a wish list and a budget. In South Africa, the National Consumer Commission told shoppers last November to be “extra vigilant of discounts”, noting festive complaints about faulty goods and orders that never arrived.
In the UK, 11 November is also Armistice Day, with a two-minute silence at 11am. Worth remembering before you set a flash-sale alarm.
Black Friday falls on 27 November and Cyber Monday on 30 November, and in both countries these are the sales most local retailers build their year around. Singles’ Day comes just over two weeks earlier, which helps with overseas deliveries but gives you less to compare.
A simple rule: buy on 11.11 only if the item is small, the total price is clear and you’d be happy paying it today. Anything else can wait a couple of weeks, when there’ll be far more prices to check it against.
Singles’ Day started as a celebration of being single, and there’s no rule that says you have to change that. But if you’d like to meet someone new before the festive rush, pick the app that suits your mood rather than the one with the loudest advert.
Whichever you pick, meet somewhere busy and tell a friend your plans. And never send money to someone you’ve just met, whatever the story. The same goes for texts about a parcel “held at customs”: the CMA advises against clicking links in unexpected texts and suggests going straight to the retailer’s own website.
Not like Black Friday. It mostly arrives through global marketplace apps, although Takealot has had a Singles’ Day page. For most local retailers, 27 November is the big day.
For goods worth £135 or less, VAT is normally charged at checkout and most goods carry no duty. Above £135, expect a bill from the delivery company for VAT and any duty.
For bigger buys, usually yes, because you’ll have more prices to compare. For a small treat you’d happily buy today, 11.11 is fine.
Singles’ Day works best as a small, honest treat: a wish-list item at a clear total price, bought from a seller you trust, with time to arrive.
Then close the shopping app, open a dating app, and say hello to someone who’s also single on 11.11.
